This is an excerpt from my new book, The Gospel According to Andy. In episode 51, Opie learns some painful lessons about losing and makes a life-changing discovery about the victory that matters most.
Episode 51
A Medal for Opie:
A Victory Greater than Winning
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he Mayberry Sheriff’s
Department Boys’ Day is coming soon!
Opie and many of his friends are excited about the competition and the
chance to win a medal by finishing first in one of the track and field events. Opie is especially enamored by his fantasy of
winning a medal, taking it off as seldom as possible, and earning the adulation
of his hometown. Perhaps he, like
Barney, will give up bathing for a while so he can wear his award round the
clock.
Barney agrees to train Opie for the
50-yard dash and promises him victory if he jumps rope, runs, and lifts others
with his legs to strengthen his muscles for the race. Opie follows Barney’s training program to the
letter. Boys’ Day arrives and Opie,
prepared to meet the moment by Barney’s coaching, lines up to run his
race. Barney’s “official starting gun”
sounds and the boys tear down the track.
Opie does his best but finishes dead last. Dead is also the way his young heart feels
after such a disappointment. Was Barney
wrong? Does working hard to prepare to
meet a challenge not lead to victory? I
think Barney was right. Training brings
victory, but not the kind of victory he led Opie to expect.
Working hard may not win you a medal for
being the fastest runner in town, but it does bring the victory of being the
best runner you can be. Our toughest
competition is against ourselves. The
event, as Andy later describes it, is becoming a mature human being. What separates the winners from the
losers? The Apostle Paul would offer
this answer,
“…pressing on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me” (Philippians 3:12).
Some people lose in the race of life because they aren’t willing to do the work required to run better. Others are winners, not because they outshine every other person in life’s race, but because they’ve invested the effort in becoming the most loving and fully alive version of themselves possible. As one saint said it, “I ain’t what I ought to be, and I ain’t what I’m going to be, but, praise God, I ain’t what I used to be!”
After some time to get over the sting of
losing the fifty-yard dash and missing out on a medal, Opie discovers a victory
that is greater than winning. My son showed
me that kind of victory. I visited my son’s elementary school to see
him compete in Field Day. He was a good
runner and was expected to do well in one of the distance races. He got off to a promising start, then entered
a leg of the course I couldn’t see. When
the runners came back into view, Josh was nowhere near the front. When I finally caught sight of him, he was
running hard with blood streaming down both of his legs and tears running down
his face. While the runners were out of sight,
one of Josh’s classmates had shoved him to the ground to literally knock him
out of the race. He suddenly found
himself on the ground with lacerated knees and dashed hopes of finishing
first. I’ve never been prouder of my son
than when I saw how he responded to that adversity. He got up and finished his race, bloody knees
and all. He finished sixth but was the
big winner in his dad’s eyes.
Opie realizes that what he wants, even
more than a Boys’ Day medal, is to live his life, victories and defeats, in a
way that pleases his father. When Andy
embraces Opie and tells him that he’s proud of the way he’s chosen to face his
disappointment, Opie receives a prize he never has to live without, even to
take a bath. He’s found a better way to
live a winning life, not by finishing first in every competition, but by
knowing that his father smiles upon the way he’s running his race. Our Father’s smile is worth more than any
medal, don’t you think? Knowing his love
and following where he leads is a victory greater than winning.
Father, I want to win, but help me to win in the ways that matter most. I won’t finish first in many races, but I can strive to be all that You’ve created and called me to be. I may enjoy the applause of the crowd when I win their momentary approval, but what I want most is to feel Your loving embrace and see Your smile. I want to run my race to please You. Amen.
Footnote: Barney performs a bit of magic in this episode. In the scene in which Andy explains the events to the boys, Barney has a whistle in his mouth. A second later, when he gives a reassuring wink to Opie, the whistle disappears, only to reappear when the camera shot widens again.
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