Sunday, August 27, 2023

A Forgotten Phone Became a Holy Moment

My feelings were strangely mixed when I arrived Sunday morning at the church I serve as pastor.  On the upside of my feelings was joyful anticipation of a baptism our church family would celebrate in worship.  A woman new to our community and our church wanted to publicly profess her faith by being baptized as a believer.  I always looked forward to leading a baptism, but this one was especially joyful because of the glowing faith and earnest desire of this sweet lady to follow Jesus.  But, on the downside of my feelings was my sadness for my friend.  Charlie, a man who had loved and led our church almost since its beginning, was nearing the end of his earthly life.  He was tired, in great pain and, in his own words, “ready to get on the road.”  Mr. Charlie, as many of us call him, has embodied the faith and spirit of our church as well as any one person could.  He’s been the annual cheerleader for “Give of Your Best to the Master Day,” a kind of homecoming celebration that renewed the church’s memory of a day, early in our story, when a fledging congregation faced the challenge of raising a great deal of money in a day to have enough of a downpayment to move forward on building a new church at a new location.  The church raised the money and construction began.  Mr. Charlie was a leader in that future-shaping day and, in the best sense of the words, wouldn’t let us forget it.  He reminded us what great things God’s people can accomplish when we pray and give our best to God.  His yearly invitation to the celebration always included menu suggestions which, of course, were his personal favorites.  He would challenge the congregation to practice food fairness, telling them not to bring bologna, then fill up on barbeque.  My friend’s critical condition was heavy on my mind and my heart as worship began. 

After the wonderful baptism, I dressed to return to the sanctuary for the remainder of the worship service and started down the stairs from our baptistery toward the main level of our sanctuary.  As I neared the bottom landing, I noticed that my cell phone was in my pants pocket.  I have a firm policy that I leave my phone in my office on Sundays so I don’t somehow interrupt my own sermon with a stray call.  But this Sunday morning, I had it with me.  About the time I landed on the ground level, an idea landed in my mind.  Scrolling through my recent calls, I found and called the number of Mr. Charlie’s daughter, Julie.  When she answered, I asked her if she was with her father in his room at the care facility.  I wasn’t surprised that she was.  I asked her if she would help me deliver a gift to her dad.  I knew Mr. Charlie’s favorite song is “Jesus Loves Me.”  I asked Julie if she would hold her phone near her dad’s ear so his church family could sing to him.  She happily agreed. 

When I entered the sanctuary, our choir was presenting their anthem. My sermon would be next.  I sat down on the front pew and whispered to my surprised church pianist, “Will you play ‘Jesus Loves Me’ for the church to sing it to Mr. Charlie?”  She nodded in agreement, then grabbed a hymnal to make good use of the two minutes’ notice I had given her.  When the choir finished and I rose to preach, I asked the congregation to help me do a favor for a friend.  I told them Mr. Charlie was very ill and that I wanted us to sing his favorite song for him over the phone.  The pianist began and the church spontaneously rose to its feet like a choir in concert.  We sang from our hearts.  Many of us choked back tears.  And we shared the joy of offering a gift to our precious friend, a reminder that the love of Jesus that had so directed his life’s journey would soon become his forever home. 

          When the singing ended, I muttered a few words of blessing to our precious Mr. Charlie and hung up my phone.  Then I preached, but I did so knowing the day’s best sermon had already concluded.  It went something like this: God can take a phone forgetfully left in a pastor’s pocket and create a moment, a holy worshipful moment in which the message and melody of the good news of His life-giving love is shared with deep feeling and heard with even deeper gratitude.  Amen. 

19 comments:

  1. Carol Bowman WyndhamAugust 27, 2023 at 3:27 PM

    That is beautiful! Mr. Charlie and Ms. Helen were teachers for our newlywed class at SABC 37 years ago. They modeled to us what a great Christian marriage was supposed to look like. Over the years, I have shared the importance of that class and that example to every pastor who would listen. We have just started a newlywed class in the NALC Lutheran church where I serve. I hope it has an equal impact on them. What a wonderful example they have had on so many lives! We love you!

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  2. Many tears were shed for our special friend.

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  3. I was part of that congregation this morning. When Dee asked us to sing, he also said, “Sing like you’ve never sung before,” and we did with hearts and voices filled with tears. I love Charlie and Helen.

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  4. Such a sweet tribute for a wonderful Child of God! It will be long remembered by those who participated. Love to Charlie and Helen and the family.
    Margaret Thigpen Normandy
    Former Member

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  5. We are out of town this week and missed the special singing. These two are so special to our family- our thoughts and prayers are with the Rivers family. Much love to then. Paul and Vicki

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  6. What a wonderful jester for Mr. Charlie.

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  7. Charlie and Helen took 2 young newlyweds, new to Columbia and expecting their first child under their wings. Babysat, loved them and treated them very special. For this we will always be grateful. The Rosebrocks

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  8. That was a wonderful thing God led you to do Pastor. Thank you for being sensitive & obedient to the leading of the Holy Spirit
    I was so touched by this simple act of love & hope Charlie was comforted to hear us all singing his favorite song. Yes indeed..."Jesus loves me"..& you & you & you...

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  9. Keith and I were out of town this weekend. I didn't know about this until a friend called and told me to look at Pastor Dee's FB page for a comment about Mr. Charlie. I tearfully read it to Keith and was sorry I hadn't been in the congregation today to express my love through that song to Mr. Charlie. Thank you Dee for having the forethought to make a Holy Moment for Charlie and Helen, and all who were so blessed to be able to send their love to him.
    Gloria Shackelford & Keith Carter

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  10. Beautifully said, Dee 🙏🏻

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  11. Thoughtful spur of the moment response to the Spirit’s leading.

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  12. Thanks for sharing this. Prayers for Helen and the family.

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  13. What a special blessing to one of finest men I know during his last days on this side of heaven and his precious family. Great idea, Dee!

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  14. We were in Charlie and Helen’s newlywed Sunday School class in the early 80’s. They were monumental in our early marriage and we will never forget them. They had us in their home, took us to the beach all together and taught us so well. We also met our best friends in that class. Much love to Charlie, Helen and family. Andy and Susan Williams

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  15. Honored to have known Mr. Charlie and Miss Helen for many years through friendship with dear friends, Julie and Ken and Monica and Charles. A trusted colleague once taught me:”we finally become who we’ve always been.” Great that Mr. Charlie’s faith has come shining through. He and his family have greatly blessed my family through their friendship and love. Grateful for their witness and influence on my and my family’s lives.

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  16. What a wonderful blessing! Mr. Charlie and Miss Helen led our Newlywed class and later Sunday school class and they are both very dear to us. They were examples of a godly marriage and taught us how to live and love one another in those early formative years of marriage! They were our “Parents away from home” for those who landed here in Columbia away from both sets of parents. We shared many “soup and sandwich” evenings at their home learning the word of God. I still make Miss Helen’s vegetable soup recipe to this day! We love them both and are eternally grateful for the investment they made in our lives! Our prayers are with Mr. Charlie, Miss Helen and their family. We love you all!❤️

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  17. What a precious gift that y’all gave an amazing fella. Mr. Charlie and Ms Helen will always hold a special spot in our hearts. What amazing example of a Godly marriage… Godly parents… And they shared God’s love in every aspect of their lives with us and our newlywed Sunday school class. They always helped relationships flourish by sharing God’s love in every part of their lives. They always opened up their home…anytime but once a month for soup and sandwich night and Bible study. What yummy food, wonderful, fellowship, and learning God’s word. Much love and prayers in the days ahead for Mr. Charlie, Ms Helen, and all of the family. The Sullivan Crew loves all of you dearly.

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  18. Yesterday, God led this wonderful moment. Our mistakes ,like forgetting to leave a phone, led to a Blessing for our church and Mr. Charlie and his family..Thank you God!!

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  19. 40 years ago Tammy and I moved from East TN to Columbia. Charlie and Helen rescued us and made up part of their family. We were part of their Sunday School class and were introduced to soup and sandwich, boiled peanuts, and as mentioned in an earlier post, met our best friends at St Andrews. If I was writing my biography Charlie Rivers would take up a chapter or more. We referred to Charlie and Helen as our South Carolina parents. The five years we were in Columbia were perhaps the best years of our lives. We did a lot of growing up and Charlie was a big part of that. He and Helen blessed us with a huge dose of love and wisdom. The Rivers family is in our prayers.
    Chuck and Tammy Odom

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