Sunday, May 22, 2016

Write Living Letters

2 Corinthians 3:1-4

Are we beginning to commend ourselves again? Or do we need, like some people, letters of recommendation to you or from you? 2 You yourselves are our letter, written on our hearts, known and read by everybody. 3 You show that you are a letter from Christ, the result of our ministry, written not with ink but with the Spirit of the living God, not on tablets of stone but on tablets of human hearts. 4 Such confidence as this is ours through Christ before God.

My dear friend, Harriet, and I, working in two different places, were each trying to get things organized. 

Harriet had set aside the day to tackle the job of cleaning up and cleaning out a small building that sat behind her home.  This wasn’t a storage building or a workshop, as most of us think about a workshop.  This small building was the place where her now deceased husband would go to study the scriptures and write his sermons.  Doug was truly a masterful preacher.  A tall strikingly handsome man, his voice had a unique melody that few could trace to his Canadian roots.  Week after week for thirty years, he had filled the pulpit of the church I had come to serve.  Doug was a great pastor to follow.  He was my friend.  He was my encourager.  He was my helper every time I asked.  When I didn’t ask for help, he never once intruded.  He, like our own Fred Miller, could’ve written the book on how to support your successor. 

Now Doug was gone and the time had come for Harriet, his wife, to sort through the things in his backyard study.  She looked at the rows of books shelved along the walls.  She thumbed through stacks of notes on the desk, sermons in progress, ideas for future messages, verses and quotations that struck a tone in Doug’s heart.  As Harriet took inventory of all that surrounded her and all that it meant, she noticed a cardboard packing box pushed back under the desk.  What could this be?  What would she do with what she discovered? 

When Harriet opened that hidden away box, she found it stuffed full of awards and recognitions, the kind of things you might find displayed in an office or a living room.  She pulled them out, one by one, and read and remembered each one. 

·        Here was a plaque given to Doug to thank him for serving as the President of the South Carolina Baptist Convention in 1988-89. 

·        Crammed in next to it was an award from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary congratulating Doug on being chosen their Alumnus of the Year.  

·        The Medical University of South Carolina had given him a framed certificate for serving on their Board of Visitors. 

·        Baptist College at Charleston, as it was then known, offered him a gift of gratitude for serving as a trustee, and as the chair of the trustees during days of challenging change. 

·        Anderson College, too, gave him a thank-you gift for serving as trustee. 

·        In the box were two honorary Doctor of Divinity degrees, one from Charleston Southern University and the other from Furman University. 

This box was stuffed with plaques and certificates, engraved gifts and awards, the kind of recognition that marks a great career and celebrates a life invested in the church and community.  Then why, you might wonder, were all these symbols of accomplishment packed into a box and pushed back under the desk in Doug’s backyard sermon factory? 

To answer that question, you need to remember that Harriet was not the only one working to get things organized.  A few miles away, I sat in my study at the church, reading through a sweet and sacred stack of stories.  A few weeks after Doug’s death, I had invited people in the church and community to send me stories about Dr. Baker; their fondest memories of his life and their personal testimonies of the scope and depth of his ministry.  I had the idea that we would take a few excerpts from these written tributes and publish a special edition of the church’s newsletter to share the stories.  I frankly wasn’t prepared for the response I received.  Well over one hundred people responded to my request, some writing a sentence or two and others writing pages of heartfelt gratitude for Doug and his ministry.  This overwhelming response promoted me from the writer of a newsletter story to the editor of a book. 

Picture this: a box full of the symbols of success and accomplishment were hidden away in Doug’s backyard study while my desk was covered with grateful memories from more than a hundred people.  What does that say about my friend’s life?  And what does it teach us about how to live? 

Spend Your Life Writing Living Letters

In Paul’s second letter to the church at Corinth, he told them and us the goal of his life.  He didn’t want or need the praise or approval of those in positions of influence or power.  He wasn’t seeking any kind of credential for his position in the church or any evidence of the value of his ministry except for one; the difference he was making in the lives of people.  His mission was to make a mark of truth and love and grace on the hearts of those he served.  And, in return, the changed lives of the people Paul served made a mark upon his heart, giving him the assurance that his life’s work mattered to God and to others. 

The awards Paul cherished were lives changed by his ministry.  The people he touched and changed in the name of Jesus were the living letters that gave joy and meaning to his work. 

Today, we have honored two of the wonderful people with whom you and I have the joy of serving.  We gave Fred and Sharon new titles today.  When I say that, I almost imagine them kneeling before the Queen of England, being touched on the shoulders with a sword, and being told to rise as Sir Fred and Lady Sharon. 

But that’s not what we’ve done at all.  What we’ve said, in this small way, is that you have written the words of life and love upon our hearts.  We, and many others in many other places, are your living letters.  And we hope that knowing that will do for you what it did for Paul—give you the sense of fulfillment and joy that comes from investing in the lives of people, in knowing you have made a beautiful faithful enduring mark on each of us. 

To be a minister, I’ve learned, is to have a front row seat from which to witness the many scenes of the drama of life.  I’ve held babies on their first day in this world and held them up thank God for a new miracle.  I’ve sat with children as they “talked to the preacher” about giving their lives to Jesus.  I’ve shaken hands with hundreds of graduates to congratulate them on their accomplishments and express the church’s blessing as they move forward into adult life.  I’ve stood with couples as they pledged their love to one another for a lifetime.  I’ve sat with families in principal’s offices, courtrooms, and hospitals in moments of crisis.  And, more times than I can count, I’ve stood by the bed of a saint as they finished their earthly race and have gone home. 

As I’ve witnessed the final hours of life, I’ve seen what truly matters to those who know they will soon go home. 

·        I’ve never heard someone ask to see their college transcript or their university diploma. 

·        No one has cried out to hold a trophy one more time. 

·        Not a person has spent life’s final hours admiring an investment portfolio. 

·        I can’t remember anyone asking to be rolled to the window so they can look out and see their favorite car with the boat on a trailer behind it.  

·        Never has a dying person asked me to comfort them by reading their resume.

What do they want?  What do they need?  What do they now see so clearly as the crowning achievement, the enduring impact of their lives? 

Surround me, they say, with the people I have loved; the people who have loved me. 

As my mentor Doug and the Apostle Paul and Fred and Sharon can teach us today,
The words of praise that truly endure and inspire are engraved upon human hearts. 
May we learn that lesson and live it.  May we spend our lives writing living letters. 

Wednesday, May 18, 2016

Giving Thanks for My Home Church

Giving Thanks for My Home Church

 Home church. 

That’s where I traveled this past weekend.  When you read those words, I bet you made a mental journey to somewhere special, too.  What is it that makes that church where you grew up, or where you first came to know Christ, such a happy holy place to return to in person or in memory? Let me tell you a few of the reasons why my home church is so precious to me. 

My home church, the East Park Baptist Church, is the only church my family attended together.  That white stucco building on the little side street of Ebaugh Avenue is the place where my father and mother, sister, brother and I shared the same Sundays, enjoyed or endured the same sermons, were touched by the same solo, and laughed at the same funny things that inevitably happen when a group of people work hard to be reverent.  Sometimes all five of us were involved in the same church event; a Lenten drama, a Christmas musical, a mission project.  When I moved my church membership to the first place I served on staff, the five of us were never at the same church again.  But we did, in our home church, create a treasury of memories we enjoy to this day. 

My home church is where I learned, through flesh and blood examples, what loving Jesus and living for Jesus means. I think of A.G. Vaughn, who wasn’t related to us (he spelled his last name with only one “a”), but who sat with me on the ride side front pew every Sunday for months so my parents could sing in the choir.   I remember the sisters, Sarah and Annie Beth, who never had children of their own, but taught three generations of our family in Sunday School.  I think of Lowell Sweat whose willingness to invest in the lives of rowdy boys to shape them into Christian young men led him to work with us in Bible study, Training Union, and Royal Ambassadors at the same time.  Jack Fulmer, our bivocational music minister, never had a part-time devotion to his ministry and taught me more music theory than I learned in any private lesson or band or orchestra in which I played.  Among the great pastors who served that church while I was there, I best remember Harry Floyd who called me down for running in the church building, counseled me when I professed my faith, baptized me as a believer, prayed for me in the hospital, served on my ordination council, and gave me part of his pastoral library when I was called to my first church.  Even today, my first pastoral reflex is to do what Harry Floyd did. 


Perhaps the greatest gift my home church has given me is encouragement.  East Park believed that young people could become Christian leaders.  On youth Sunday, practically every lesson was taught by a youth.  Every leadership role in worship was filled by a student who had been coached by a member of the staff.  Before I left my home church, I had led prayer in worship, taken up the offering, led congregational singing, shared a solo, and made my first clumsy attempts at preaching.  I wasn’t Billy Graham, but they couldn’t have praised my efforts any more if I had been.  My home church invited me to explore, discover and develop my ministry gifts.  What wonderful Christian people!

Due to some overwhelming building needs, my home church will close the doors of its present location at the end of June to merge with another Baptist church.  The work will go on and so will the influence of that holy place and those loving people upon my life and the lives of countless others.  I'm so thankful to call East Park my home church.