Dr. Gerald Mann, founding pastor of
Riverbend Church in Austin Texas, tells how he and his wife Lois couldn’t
afford a honeymoon trip when they were married.
Six years later, because of free passes he received from the airline he
worked for at that time, he and Lois took a trip to Hawaii .
One evening they were walking down Waikiki Beach ,
hand in hand, when they came upon a luau in progress. The torches were burning, the traditional
foods filled the table and a live band played music. Lois said to Gerald, Let’s dance. For whatever
reason, embarrassment or inhibition, he said he’d rather not.
Many years later, Lois became very
sick. The doctors told her that she
wouldn’t live much longer. As she and
Gerald talked one day, reflecting on the life they’d shared, he asked her a
question, Lois, do you have any
regrets?
Of course I do, she answered. Everyone
has regrets. If they say they don’t,
they are lying.
What is you main regret, he asked.
That we didn't dance on the
beach.
This story is about much more than
dancing. It’s about living. It’s about experiencing God-given moments of
joy instead of blindly or fearfully letting them pass by. It’s about opening the gifts of joy God sends
you instead of leaving them unopened.
Every sunrise…every hug from a
child…every song…every surprise meeting with a friend…every verse of scripture
that seems to have my name on it…each one is a gift of joy that God has sent
me. He sends them into my life so that I
might live in the spirit of Psalm 92:4,
For you make me glad by your
deeds, O LORD; I sing for joy at the works of your hands.
I haven’t danced on enough beaches. I've missed a thousand of those moments, but
I don’t want to miss another one. I want
to see and receive and live in celebration of God’s gifts of joy.